I acknowledge the tremendous bounty of those whose many decades of experience and research informs my practice. My somatic/body centred therapeutic understanding is influenced by the wonderful work of Gabor Mate, Bessel Van der Kolk, Pema Chodron, Jeff Foster and my own teacher and mentor Cindy Aulby.
For understanding the wisdom of our feelings Karla McLaren has a holistic perspective on how to trust and use emotions. I have found the books of Harriet Lerner an excellent resource, particularly the Dance of Anger and the Dance of Intimacy.
Many of my clients resonate with the work of Dr. Elaine Aaron’s book on being a Highly Sensitive Person.
The tools and perspectives of Hand in Hand Parenting have been hugely helpful for me and I often recommend them - they take some time to learn and practice but they work wonders.
In Praise of Rest
Recently I’ve been considering the pace at which we live our lives, and reflecting on the importance of rest and taking it slow wherever possible.
Consider the natural world to which we ultimately belong: all things rest. Its authority is in day and night, in seasons and their rhythms. Life knows that rest is crucial.